Dating and messaging
When you’re texting someone that you like and they are hard to get, it’s nauseating, exciting, and thrilling, waiting for someone to respond – the fact that it’s new and unknown is exciting.The anticipation and re-reading of texts can drive you mad but it’s that pain and agony that makes it so much better when they respond.” According to Braden, 20, “more than once a day is too often,” while Cameron, 23, says texting “just to say hey” is “always fine.” Nate, 30, agrees that the text conversation should be “open-ended to keep the conversation flowing.” Ben, 27, wants a more creative conversation starter.You know pretty quickly if someone is into you or if you are into them.Whether it’s via text, at a bar or Steak ‘n Shake, “hard to get” is a thing of the past.Downloading Sex Messenger is absolutely free, as are many of the basic options needed to get around the software.But upgrading your Sex Messenger is where all the action is at.These are folks in your area that are interested in one thing only – that hookup and more!No beating around the bush with tired excuses and empty promises.
Five guys, ages 20 – 30, opened up about what goes through their minds before they hit send.
Our panel of eligible male millennials: (Names have been changed.) David, 20 Braden, 20 Cameron, 23 Ben, 27 Nate, 30 Let’s cut to the chase – pun intended.
Four out of five of the guys said yes, there are rules to texting.
Ultimately, I think there is a general set of baseline rules that most people follow – like being polite, funny, respectful – and then the rest just falls into personal expectations.” There was a clear divide here.
Two out of three of the 20 – 23 year olds said there is nothing appealing about someone being “hard to get.” David, 20, clarifies, “It makes them seem conceited and uninterested.” Nate, 30, weighs in with the younger crowd on this one, stating that “nothing” is appealing about a girl who is “hard to get.” He advocates the “straight to the point” approach: “I am always one who is aggressive and goes after what I want.