Etiquette dating after death spouse
Accordingly, we can only do what we feel is the right thing at that moment in time.
My finger did feel bare for quite a while, for I had been married for just shy of twenty years.
He suddenly wanted to “just be friends” when he found out I had a child.
Then it was back to online with , which I found out after the fact is a well-known “hook up mostly” site.
I signed up for wasn’t a good format fit for me, and I abandoned the effort after a few weeks and only meeting a police officer who looked like Lurch with a bad comb-over.
Next I tried to cultivate a dating minded relationship with an industrial tech teacher I’d met through my master’s program that summer.
When I came home after my late husband’s death, I took off my ring, as usual, and it never felt right putting it on again.
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Consequently, I didn’t have anyone that I could ask about the proper protocol.
Little did I know that there is no “proper” protocol ~ only what feels right to each individual.